How open are you when it comes to talking about sex? Can you talk about sex with someone with it becoming sexual?
Posted Jan 4, 2023, 2:47 PM UTC
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Yeah, I talk about sex all the time on here. It rarely becomes sexual.
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Same. I enjoy discussing sex on reddit as it broadens my knowledge and I get to read a range of different opinions from people but I have never wanted to get sexual with anyone on here.
It all depends on what is being said and how it is said ya know? If you wanted to make a conversation sexual you could steer it that way whether online or in person
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Here is what most people don't get it. Sex is sexual... The word sex is in it. I think what most women want is to talk about it without the intent men taking it as a hint to get in their pants. It's is sexual but it doesn't have to be targeted towards the person you are talking to. Some people can and some people don't have the focus. Sadly it is mostly Men that can't compartmentalize this.
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Very true. I can talk about sex without getting turned on which is what i think is the problem with most men. When a female is talking about sex some take it as an invitation to try to insert themselves literally instead of just a conversation about aspects of the human sexual experience
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Thanks for this. Stating my sexual preferences isn't an open invitation or a classified ad saying I want you to flood my DMs telling me you have a hairy chest.
I don't get turned on answering ARAD posts, I'm just interested in reading people's perspective since it's not something we have often access to.
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Talking about sex shouldn't have as much stigma as it does, and it can remain casual and unawkward for me, but it can lead to other things if you both have sexual chemistry
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I can't talk about anything without it becoming sexual. I usually keep those thoughts to myself though.
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It depends. I’m very open when it comes to sex talk that doesn’t involve my own sex life. I’m capable of talking about it in a casual way.
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Yeah, I can talk about it easy enough with anyone
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Absolutely! I actually enjoy it
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I have absolutely no problems talking about sex
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I'm pretty open with people I already know. Less so with people that I consider strangers since I don't know what their intent is.
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yeah, no big deal, my GF and I are both open books when it comes to talking about sex
with others? Nope, only when asked about, and yes, it can become sexual, but not in a flirty way
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I think so. I've known a few women who I've been able to have a normal conversation about sex with. It's not that crazy. I've done some photography work as well, and it helps to be able to discuss things openly.
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I'm open. I'm able to talk about it fine
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I have no issue with it.
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I’m all for taking the taboo out of sex. It’s more I try not to force it onto ppl if they’re uncomfortable. Fine line to walk
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With pals I’m comfortable with I’m always happy to as long as it doesn’t break any pre-approved boundaries with partners. I think it’s healthy.
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We all adults, we should be able to talk about anything