Are you misdiagnosing your spouse?

I read so many posts on here saying “I’m High Libido and my spouse is Low Libido, so that’s why I’m cheating.

I have to wonder if that’s truly the case or if like me, I’m super High Libido with my lover who swoons me all day, everyday, with flirting and listening and he’s interested in connecting with the real me inside. The mental connection is what sends my libido into overdrive for hours of lovemaking and touching.

If my husband was on here posting, I believe he would say he is married to a low libido gal. It’s not that his sexual skills are lacking. His skills outside of the bedroom are to blame. He can’t work more than full-time, do his extra curricular activities, which we don’t have in common, and then expect me to be all primed and ready for his physical attention at the end of the day.

If my lover and my husband ever sat in the same room talking about me, they wouldn’t recognize the person either of them described.