AITA for not retrieving my one groomsman’s tux?

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Ok, so short story: I got married this past Friday (yay me). Anyway, I had four guys in my part of the bridal party. Best Man (BM), groomsmen 1, 2, and 3. (g1, g2, g3)

I’d like to say that I went above and beyond in catering to them so they wouldn’t have to shell out a bunch of money to be a part of my wedding. In good faith, I paid for half of their tux rentals, and I booked a double room for two nights so myself and the two of the groomsmen could stay in the night before the wedding, we all could get ready in the day of, and they could stay there the night of the wedding while I transferred over to the bridal suite.

Anyway, BM and G3 were responsible and picked up their tuxes. G1 and G2 said they were running a bit late and it would’ve been a stretch to get to rehearsal on time so I picked their tuxes up, and paid for the balance (they gave that to me via Venmo)

Anyway, wedding day comes and it’s a good blur. G1 and G3 stayed in the double room wedding night while G2 went up to the room, changed into street clothes and left bc he didn’t feel good.

On Sunday, G3 gets a call from the hotel saying that someone forgot their tux in the closet. I want to blame G2 for not mentioning to G1 or G3 that he left the tux in the closet, but I also need to have G1 and G3 shoulder some of the blame for not being thorough with checking the room before they left.

G2 lives maybe a half hour to 40 minutes away in a neighboring state. I live 15 minutes from the town where the hotel is. G3 passes the town where the hotel is on his way to work everyday and works within 10 minutes of the tux rental location.

I was asked by G2 to help him out and get the tux, but I politely explained that I did more than my fair share and being a grown adult, it was his deal to figure out.

AITA for refusing to try to help in the situation?

Posted Jan 4, 2023, 6:11 PM UTC

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