40F4F domme who gets off on power

When i have a sub the sex and play are fun but its the power i truly crave. That is my kink. Being able to tell her what to wear, when to talk, if i drop something be able to get her to pick it up with no more than a look that is what gets me going.

That level of control also allows me to play in so many ways. Each sub is unique and define punishments and rewards differently. I can be a soft domme for girls or a evil bitch for pain loving girls. But with both of them i expect control away from play time.

One soft girl gave me control of her clothing she went from frumpy to slut over a few months. One nasty sub gave me control of her bladder and had her humiliate herself when she lost control, which is what she enjoyed. Then I’ve had a 50s house wife on the surface we were just a cute lesbian couple, at home she did all domestic work, pleased me as i wanted and never complained.

The reality of this is its hard to keep a relationship when its that intense. Im open with my subs and we discuss that is and isnt working. The amount of communication is so much greater than normal dating.

If you had experienced being controlled or controlling someone gay or straight id love to chat snd make sone new friends. I hope to hear from you ladies today or when ever. Kiss