This really fucking bothers me

I've had a few traumatic events in my life related to sexual assault, some of them were pure scars in my soul while the others not so much. I've learned to live though them, sometimes they still come back to haunt me.

I don't have any problems openly saying what happened with me, like not the complete details but sharing that I'm a victim. The thing that bothers me is that, whenever I share it on reddit like openly say what happened with me, in this case someone made a post about groping and to which my comment contained that I'm a victim of groping... Now, I'm getting DMs from people asking about that groping incident and these questions are going as far as "Were you wearing a panty" "Did he manage to reach your asshole" and these questions go as far as "Did you secretly enjoy it" "Do you want it to happen again" (Asked by people in the past from this subreddit)

I'm genuinely curious and concerned because these questions make it feel like these guys are secretly jerking off behind their screen which actually makes me sick because there is a high possibility of it happening... or I'm just overthinking, I don't know...