[F4M] Does it frustrate you when women dress up like subtle cockteases, and then get upset when men stare at them ? :P
The modern world has provided a lot of freedom to women. Fashion is evolving each & every year, as women get the opportunity to wear a wide variety of stylish clothes. For the most part, men are happy about the fact that women have such freedom of choice. Women should live their lives in whichever way they want, and choosing how they dress is a part of the freedom they're given.
However, some fashion choices by women could be seen as 'distracting' :P An obvious example, which almost everyone would be familiar with, is young women going out for jogging whilst wearing a shorts & sports bra. Such an attire leaves nothing to the imagination, and men would think that the attire lures them to 'admire' the women's beauty. However, women would find it upsetting if men stare too much. Therein lies the problem.
Another example is young women attending university lectures whilst wearing crop tops and/or short skirts. Men would think that any male professor would find it difficult to focus on the lecture, if such lovely women sit in the front desk. One glance at the women's lovely legs might make the professor forget about what they were talking about.
The same thing extends to the corporate workplace. Men's choice of attire is a boring suit. Women, on the other hand, have a wide variety of attires which are designed to highlight their feminine beauty. As such, some of those attires might be too distracting for the male colleagues. Some men might find it difficult to focus on a presentation, if a woman is doing the presentation whilst wearing a tight shirt.
Corporate dinner parties (and other similar events) are even worse. Women get the chance to dress up in elegant cocktail dresses, which are explicitly designed to show off their body in a tantalising way. If you went out to celebrate New Year's Eve, you'd know the type of outfits women wear for celebratory events. So, it's no surprising that men would unblinkingly stare at them.
The effect is worse if it's a situation in which women aren't supposed to dress alluringly. For example, a morning prayer at the church is something that is boring and casual. When happily-married housewives attend the church while wearing body-hugging sundresses, it's no surprise that the husbands could hardly care about the prayer. Most of the men go to such church gatherings merely to chat with women. Husbands find it hard to believe that the wives don't enjoy the attention they get from the other husbands.
It has become extremely common for women to go out in outfits that used to be considered as 'underwear'. Whether it's going for grocery shopping while wearing yoga pants & tank tops or going to walk the dog while wearing booty shorts & tight t-shirts or going to the office while wearing skin-tight professional dresses, women are enjoying the immense freedom to wear whatever they want.
It causes men to occasionally ogle at them, since most men aren't used to seeing women in such attires. It's (mostly) new, it's captivating.
Do you find it unfair when women dress up as such, and then get upset when men stare at them ? :P Do you think women intentionally dress up in such outfits, because they subtly enjoy the attention they get from men ?
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Posted Jan 4, 2023, 6:20 PM UTC