FTM and sex work (pre everything)
I'm a ftm person and I haven't even started hrt yet. I've been thinking about venturing into sex work and my question is if I'll be only perceived as a cis woman until any visible changes? Or is there any way to be perceived differently?
Posted Jan 9, 2023, 9:38 PM UTC
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I am not involved in the SW scene but:
Given these, I would posit that you are likely to have mostly cis het guys as customers. And with the current state of cis het guys, I would imagine many of them will not respect your true gender.
Your primary tool to combat this would be blocking/firing clients who don’t, but of course this impacts your income, so that’s going to be a constant balancing act.
All that being said, trans SWers are a pretty large group, so it’s entirely possible that you could tap into a network for that (you may have to do things like lean into kinks or something to carve out a niche, but it may be better than the alternative).
If you do decide to get into it, I definitely wish you the best ❤️ I would recommend trying to network with other trans SWers generally, and especially in your area if possible, they should be able to help a lot! Twitter seems to be a big place for trans SWers so that might be a good starting point.
Thanks a lot!