red flag?

So I have been "dating," this guy who is in college for a teaching degree. He lives in a city and I, a town. We unexpectedly had a child born this year. It has been hard since then because he doesn't think he will be happy in town. There aren't any Chinese people place in my town, would be a lie. I know there are some, but I have worked with some. He doesn't like the bus system. The thing is that I have a disability, and my whole family is here. I don't want my child to grow up without having the love, memories, support, or knowledge of my side of the family. Currently, my parents have support and care. We plan that in two years he would tech in the city and then come to where I am. Live together. Then after six years, we would go to a city. Is this a red flag? I am being too naive thinking that he will do what he said. I don't want to be separated from my family. I don't know him because they are close to my family. His dad is retired. His mom works. I don't believe I would get support if I left.