Can I have some tips?

I've been trying to shift for a long time now, and I have shifted to my desired reality (which was identical to my CR so I didn't even notice I've shifted until I've checked the time on my phone), and now I'm trying to shift to a much larger DR and I'm pretty much feeling hopeless. I have many things holding me back from shifting, but I think the number one thing that keeps me from shifting is the though that my DR might be too good to be true.

Normally, when things seem to good to be true we don't believe them, right? Well, that's exactly what's happening right now. You're not supposed to obsess over shifting, and I tried not to or else I'll get too attached and at one point and feel discouraged. And I've never managed to open my eyes and find myself in my desired reality,I feel more and more hopeless as time passes.

My question is, how can I change my beliefs? I want a way to make myself believe again and at least not be so attached to it.🙏🙏🙏🙏