Dating for men in 20s and maybe early 30s is just easier in small-medium sized cities compared to large metro areas

Im 25 and recently moved to Toronto and girls here are very flaky and its also harder to match with attractive girls

I had no dating issues when I lived in a medium sized city (Edmonton)

I still get dates/hookups ( I swear Toronto girls only want hookups) but theres too much flaking here + match rate is lower I even had to drop my standards and swipe on girls that aren't really my type

I think I know the reason. Big cities mean larger number of attractive guys even if smaller % of population

There are thousands of attractive guys in large cities like Toronto so why would an attractive girl in her 20s even care about less attractive men

I will meet a girl who's all over me and even hookup with me but ghost next day . I will match with girls who won't stop telling me how attractive I am and they wanna see me but flake the day we were gonna meet.

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This is my experience tho. Dating is 10x harder in large metros