My ex gf(22) wants me(M26) to continue helping her in life
So quick summary and straight to the point:
Me and my gf moved to Texas in March 2022. We had terrible experiences with cars and apartments.
We lost the first car because I fell behind on payments. The second car she wrecked on her way to an interview and the 3rd car had problems 3 months into owning it.
She had 2 different jobs the first 3 months, of being there and didn’t get a job she liked until October.
The first place we moved into had terrible maintenance so we moved to another place that wasn’t much better.
We didn’t pay rent at this second apartment and was evicted around November.
We got into an argument end of October, and I took the car for the weekend so she quit her job because she didn’t have a way to get to work for that Monday.
We moved into her friends 1bedroom apartment and slept in the living room. We started looking for places to live but admins and application fees were high, she had no income, and my credit was terrible.
I took her back to Mississippi and I went to live with a friend so I could keep my job. We came up with a plan to live in a hotel until she got a job and we got the apartment situation sorted out.
We were in the hotel for about 10 days and I could not afford to pay another 2 weeks because the car note is due no weekly and my check was suddenly garnished for a loan from over a year ago.
We packed up and moved to Louisiana with my mom. We started having car trouble again and did not want to risk driving 45 minutes back and forth to interviews and eventually work so we moved to Mississippi with her grandparents.
Once we got to Mississippi, she got a job that lasted a couple weeks until they let her go since it was a temp position. The car finally quit and I could not get to my factory job interview 45 minutes away without needed grandmas help and even if I got the job, she does not get up at 6am for any reason.
My gf then decided to break up with me because I am always negative and makes everyone around me depressed. In January she decided she wanted to go back to Texas so I got her a plane ticket and sent her on her way.
She got her a job and apartment but calls me for help with bills and gas money for her friend and Uber money. I am still living with HER grandparents and make half of what I did in Texas. She tells me all the time to let her go and we are not getting back together. I can not call her to have a regular conversation or anything. Now after 3 months I am about to get the car fixed and she insists that I give it to her because she needs help more than I do.
Posted Apr 1, 2023, 7:03 PM UTC