Bottoms of Reddit, how did you prepare for your first time bottoming?
Posted Apr 28, 2023, 6:51 AM UTC
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Start going light training: get a plug set and see how much you can naturally take without pain.
Learn to clean you out: different amount of water fills different people to far or to little. You can feel if it goes to far within if you listen to your body, I also make it a little cool to make it more clear. Inner body is very sensitive to cold but it can have a little as a treat.
break some bad habits: pushing as if you’re taking a crap (sorry for the language) actually makes you looser.
Be, generous, with, the, lube!: and shell out for the better stuff in smaller tubes, it’s not to expensive it’s better quality, there’s an equation to this. Cost= quantity•quality. Ie, if there’s more of it
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Try with a toy first, a prostate massager or a plug; you can also try with your fingers to see how much it hurts/feels. You need a lot of lube, water based. This is a game of patience, the sphincter needs to be relaxed and stretched.
Try eating high fiber and low fat meals and clean your bottom, douche or get an enema if possible. Remember that is your butt so is always possible that you see some waste, is normal, have some paper towels available to clean it.
It’s going to feel awkward the first times, it may hurt, you may not like it and that’s ok. You may realize that it gets better and it may feel amazing and that’s ok too.
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I would like to add:
Wash your hands before and after, make sure your nails are cut short, and size up to the size you're expecting to take every time
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Step one is to plan. So say tomorrow is the designated day, then I'll hold my shit in until I can't hold it any longer, then I shit just before bed. I wake up and eat light meals leading up to the fun, then I lube up everything that's going to be involved. Like I shove a finger in there to make sure my internal ecosystem is lubed up too, because there's going to be a lot of action in there, then I make sure my wife starts slow before going crazy on my anus. So that's my take on it.
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Take a shower. Be and feel clean.
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I have heard of the preps and douching, I can handle that, and would definitely do that,but im worried about the first entry on the backdoor
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Communication with your partner is paramount. Know that you’re allowed to say stop, slow down, or whatever works for you. Don’t overthink it. And have your partner wear a condom. Makes cleanup immensely easier.
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Use toys first. Start small and slowly work your way up in size.
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Ok, i saw it in the first comment, I might have to look out for some plugs
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Honestly I haven't I wanted to try,,, will the plug help making it 'get used to stretching'?
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Seems sound, I'll look for some,