not feeling good enough
How do I shake off this feeling I get when someone shows me interest or shows effort towards me, I start feeling like i’m not deserving or i’m not good/worthy enough to be on the receiving end of their genuineness? and its not that I don’t see my worth…I love myself, but somehow I don’t believe it when people “love” me. I’ve rejected people before because I’ve felt like they deserve better or some shit like that☹️
Posted May 23, 2023, 9:24 PM UTC
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Your enough and if you feel like your not you can work on it. Why wouldn't you be enough? Sure there might be better people, but there's only one you. Some anxiety is fine your partner can always reassure yah... But it's more of a you have to be comfy with yourself type thing. Some things you feel may be ugly to you or make you seem weak, but yah know sharing it is also a brave thing... Eye of the beholder type thing. We're always our own worst critics, but those that love us build us up n see the best in us. It's on you to realize it for yourself.
Lol especially if your into art you'd know the feeling.
😩i hear you completely…i definitely need to work on it and i wont lie i feel kind of better reading this…maybe i do overthink it and i need to learn to trust myself and trust others too when they tell me that i’m good enough for them
Haha np. Yer doing great just keeping an open mind and trying. Sometimes it's just as simple as that. ^^ ya need the small confidence boosts. Even if it's yay I got out o bed today. Cause some people are too sad or stuck in their head sometimes. It might be good practice to be grateful or reward yourself for the small things. super snuggles you'll be fine. Yah got this!
I get yah though cause I'm kinda like that too n still working on it. One o my buddies was like wtf pup why are you like good at everything? My go to response was... Nah I assure you I'm very mediocre at everything.
Lol then I apologized like oops, toxic up bringing... My bad xD