man (30M) asks me (21F) on a date in public and then asks me to Netflix and chill??
Long story short, I was at a car shop a few weeks ago and a man bumped into me there and asked me for coffee. I went on the coffee date with him today, and I felt like he was mostly talking about himself and didn’t really seem too interested in what I was saying (although he was listening to me). The conversation was pretty normal, and he was also wearing pretty casual clothing, while while I was more dressed up for the date. But he did pay for my drink and we walked around and he was respectful of me. Then after the date, he texts me to go and get food and to go to his apartment and “Netflix and eat and chill.” He also, however, sent me a picture of him going on a hike by himself after our date, so I’m not sure what’s going on. What is your interpretation of his intentions? thank you 🙏
UPDATE: thank you for your suggestions also you were right he was just looking to hook up and I squeezed it out of him via text without needing to meet him
Posted Jun 1, 2023, 2:16 AM UTC · edited