Right bros, nothing overtly major. I'd just like some advice.
Right so background as it's all important.
I'm in university, currently doing a year in industry between my second and third year. So I met this guy in our uni LGBT society and we went for coffee twice and chatted, he's in the first year of my course and asked for help with some botany stuff. So I went over and tutored him and we then went to a social.
Now I'll admit I fucked up a bit that night as I was talking to another friend and pretty much just explained that I had no idea how to tell the guy that I liked him or even to check whether he liked me or not. I'm not the most confident of my guys, I'm a virgin at 20 and haven't done anything with a guy outside of making out (which fuels in lack of confidence).
Now this guy then starts ignoring me, and we usually text every other day and the texts used to be about nothing or just jokes. He also doesn't show up to the LGBT for weeks on end then 2 weeks after I stop going due to lots of work, he miraculously appears.
I tried texting him three weeks ago, asking how he did on the botany test I tutored him for and nada.
So I've been debating messaging him on facebook just asking if I've done anything to upset him or any reason for the cold shoulder. In essence, do I confront the guy or just leave the issue and see if we end up bumping into each other in LGBT at all.
Sigh, normally I'm not this bleeding emotional about stuff like this.
Posted Dec 2, 2012, 4:57 PM UTC