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How does your SO feel about the KIND of porn you watch?

As has been demonstrated here time and time again, most men tend to watch porn, and many of them have partners that are cool with it. Nothing wrong with masturbation, and nothing wrong with some visual assistance while you're at it.

However, how does your SO feel about the type or genre of visual stimulation you enjoy? Are they perhaps disturbed by your predilection towards hentai, curious about your taste for BDSM porn, or maybe just amused that you think Girls Gone Wild is porn?

I myself prefer amateur porn. I feel that the intimacy and pleasure on display is more 'real' than on professional porn, which to me feels more like an act. My ex-girlfriend however, who was accepting of porn and masturbation, who watched porn and masturbated, found my leaning for amateur stuff to be totally unacceptable. She felt gratifying oneself to professionally made porn with professional pornstars was appropriate, because it was clearly in the realms of fantasy. But amateur porn made her insecure because the people in it were as real as her and not some silicone illusion. And apparently that was too much like cheating.

So men and women of askmen, how does your other half feel about your porn tastes?

Posted Dec 2, 2012, 5:49 PM UTC

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