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I was just broken up with yesterday and I feel so many different things at one time.

My boyfriend (26) broke up with me (21) yesterday. We had been together for 2 years. He said he didn't love me in a romantic way anymore. We had a really good relationship with open communication, good sex life, and we just respected each other and loved each other's company.

Recently, things hadn't been so great because my depression had reoccured after a long time and I just didn't love myself. I've started going to therapy and next week, I am seeing a doctor about getting back on an anti depressant. I had a really big realization the other nite about how I am still a lovable person and that I am a good person. I know that even though I have been broken up with, it does not affect my self-worth.

This is my first relationship and he told me this has been his first relationship where he truly loved and respected and the other person. I just think we have a lot more of a future. I don't know if we'll get married, but we just get along so well now and have so much in common that I thought that could get us through this rough patch I'm going through.

More than anything, I just wish him and I could be friends. He's my best friend and he says I am his best friend also. I am so heartbroken to lose him.

What can I do? Is there anything I can do? Please help :(

TL;DR Boyfriend (26) of 2 yrs broke up with me (21) but we're best friends and this doesn't feel like it should be ending yet.

Posted Dec 2, 2012, 6:28 PM UTC

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