Reddit, I recently went to a strip club for the first time a couple days ago. This girl gave me some dances and was doing gnarly flips on me. What are some of your first time experiences at a strip club?

So i go to a strip club with some buddies and they tell me to be careful of how much money i spend. They gave me tips like to not get dances right away and just chill and scope the place out but as soon as i walked in my will power was drained. Girl comes over and asks if i want a dance i tell her not right now, but 10 minutes later i tell her ok lets go. It was something like 20$ a dance and i had to pay a bouncer 20$. We get behind the curtain and she start grinding on me,boobies in face,humping me and then starts breaking out these gnarly flips. After that i spent the rest of the night buy shots and getting to drunk.

TLDR- Lost all will power to control my money and spent it on shots and gnarly flip lap dances.