Sometimes a perspective change is what’s needed

I just saw someone I really care about drunk and way out of it. They kept insisting they were fine but to a sober person they were belligerent and making a fool of themselves. I’m trying to not include too much detail as there is a chance they may see this. But too often, I am the drunk one and since I forget everything the next day, all the cringey, embarrassing things I did are also forgotten. But I’m sober rn and seeing them act this way, especially in front of children and family, made me incredibly sad but I’ve also never been more glad to be sober. IWNDWYT!