i can’t tell if i genuinely like men or not

okay so i know i like women romantically, but with men, i just can’t tell anymore. i’ve had “crushes” on guys but i don’t think they’re genuine crushes. it’s more so i “chase” for their love and attention. although, once they’ve given me their attention, i start to dislike them.

sometimes i will continue to entertain them (if i think i like them), but quickly those feelings suddenly disappear and i end up ghosting/breaking things off with them. this happens every single time i talk to a guy, never once with a girl.

when i think of myself in a romantic relationship, i feel more myself with a woman rather than a man. i feel comfortable, happy, and free.

i’m just so confused. I can’t tell if i’m lesbian or not. i am asexual (no sexual attraction to others) if that helps with anything. please help