I honestly can't believe it's this hard

We were a male female couple from the quad cities part of Illinois between here and Iowa were newer to the lifestyle but would love to find someone for either fwb,one night stand,friends,smoke buddies or maybe whatever else depending on what We're into nerdy shit or our pets we like movies video games 420 as much as possible .,we're both a little shy but hoping to meet someone eventually Also perfer someone 420 friendly as well and either f or t but few real preferences if we vibe