Ok so this girl I work with has told me on 3 separate occasions now about how her husband asks for sex and she turns him down - the first time I was like ok yeah sometimes we are tired or just not into it but then she told me a different story again with her saying she didn't want sex and then a third time - at this point I was thinking is she trying to tell me something or is she just venting?
Posted Jun 18, 2023, 3:35 PM UTC
she is probably just venting. if she begins to make suggestions or is flirting, then you could make a move if that is what you want.
Sounds like she's oversharing without reading your response properly.
If you don't want to hear her sex life then you're just going to need to be clear "Hey, can I just stop you there? I really have no interest in your sex life, can we keep work conversations 'safe for work' please?"
It’s hard to diagnose from a post, some people just like to vent, some people are massive oversharers and some people like the thrill of other people being attracted to them and the riskiness of flirting/hinting with people when they’re in a relationship.
Either way I’d just tread lightly, workplace romances (especially ones with a chance to get ugly) are not advised lol
Even if she’s venting, is she bragging about not wanting to please her partner?
Right? Seems odd to me.
Sounds like she’s venting. But even so - she’s married. Even if - and I doubt this - she was trying to come on to you, are you the kind of guy who would seriously sleep with a married woman?
No I'm not.