Question about respect

I'm curious people's opinion on something: if a husband gives permission to the wife and her friend that he's ok with them having sex with just a single requirement that they film it, and they agree ahead of time (3 days before the date) to do a video, but then on their date the friend says he's not comfortable with the video but they both still go through with having sex without any communication to the husband.

Would the husband be justified in feeling disrespected that his sole request was ignored, or is he being over dramatic?