She (F44) threw her tampon at me (M45)

Long story short. After a night out and more than a few drinks, my (M45) spouse (44F) threw her tampon at me claiming that men don't have to go through what women do. It all stemmed from her not getting attention or lack of when one of the regulars helped another inebriated person at the bar. It was quite the spectacle.

That's not normal right? I was clear-headed enough to record her yelling at me. Am I wrong to have recorded it?