Lmfao.
I've probably seen a few hundred escorts by now (M25) and I STILL to this day get harder than a MF after handing over the money. God bless this hobby, I don't think I'll ever get tired lmao!
Does anyone else have similar experiences?
Posted Sep 6, 2023, 10:37 PM UTC
I’m 43 and have no problem getting hard. Usually it happens as soon as the provider or myself start to remove our clothing.
As soon as I see the girl i'm already hard
I usually get hard the minute the provider opens the door.
It takes me a little while to get hard, and I even lose it sometimes. How do you guys manage it? For reference, I’ve only seen a handful so far and no, I haven’t been able to “pop” while on a date yet.
This used to happen to me a lot, and it took me a while to figure out what was going on. The worst time was when I booked a super hot, but very expensive provider. She met me at the door dressed for battle. After a bit of friendly chit chat, I took my shower. She followed me into the bathroom and sat there chatting while I showered.
Then we hit the bed and for some reason I struggled to get aroused/hard. It was a terrible session and almost a complete waste of my money.
I got thinking about it later and realized what had happened. My brain basically shut down during the chit chat. Getting naked in front of her while in the shower, while just having a casual conversation was a bit like seeing a doctor and getting an exam. You tell yourself not to be self conscious getting naked in front of the doctor, and definitely don't think of anything that will get you turned on. I think my brain just subconsciously goes into that mode in that situation, and then it's a struggle to get my brain back to sexy time.
It's mostly only an issue on first time bookings, but I have developed a system that helps me get around it. Now when I do the initial greeting and chit chat, I try to stay close to the provider and casually stroke her arms, hair, face, back legs, or whatever is close to me while chatting. This helps keep my brain thinking about sex instead of the casual chit chat. I always arrive freshly showered and squeaky clean so ideally the greeting escalates into sex anyway. But with first time providers they usually ask me to shower first so at least with a bit of touching my head is in the "right space" before I go to shower.
Hope this long winded response helps...
Actually it does. Some really good advice. But as a person with ADHD, sometimes it’s hard to get into that mindset AND stay there. Keep the squirrel on the wheel, so to speak. 😏
Damn this just happened to me today and I think you nailed it, started chatting got undressed wasn’t hard but eventually got it going, then during sex I stupidly tried asking her about something and it just killed everything, couldn’t get hard again.
To me I think it is basically the male version of "pre-foreplay". When you are with a woman on a date there is usually a build up to the sex before you even start kissing. It would be unusual to meet a non-provider and just start getting busy (especially the first time you meet).
So the result can be that you have a shockingly sexy woman greeting you at the door "dressed for battle", and your body just does not respond. Our brains have not been programmed to have sex like that.
As soon as My ATF emerges from behind the door ...... in a Victoria's Secret Baby Doll in a pair of 5" CFM Louboutins ..... my cock becums an 8" steel pipe!
She offers effusive complements!
(She's got that anticipatory. self-satisfied "look" on her face!)
"Oh Yeah!"
"I'm gunna take care of that!"
"I'm gunna have some fun tonight!"
Genuine enthusiasm is worth a lot. If I find a new girl that enjoys what she does and wants to make sure I have a good experience you can bet your ass I'm going to see her again.
I was so impressed by my first rendezvous with my ATF that I went back to her 77x! I can't imagine any other provider competing with her. She's a DDG K-Girl with a killer body! Her hygiene is impeccable! I lick her pussy and eat her asshole with Reddi Wip! It's hobby Heaven!
I’ve seen my fair share too, but still to this day never fail to be hard as a rock before even giving the money lol. It’s just the process itself is sexy.
Ill fkin nut in the first 2 min with a chick but thats why I always make sure 2 nuts are ok. I call it the nervous nut gotta get that one out then the real work can be done haha
Second nut not as good as first one tho. If they know you cum fast they should make a discount tbh. Something like a very quick visit.
I had company for a week and avoided self-gratification. Visited ATF the as soon as I sent the last guest off to the airport. Got a boner watching his Uber drive away, showering, dressing, driving to incall. It was glorious.
I get a hard on whenever I agreed for an appointment then it settles until you get to the room where it starts trying to burst out of my pants
I ate a grape at the grocery store and I jizzed in my pants
And an hour before I go, and the night before, and pretty much on and off regularly from the moment I make the appointment.
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For me that only happens with my regulars. Something about them greeting me at the door dressed for battle, and all the memories of our previous encounters welling up in my head.
With new providers it usually takes me a while to warm up (no matter how hot they look).
Dude, I used to get hard every time I went to the damn ATM, because that always meant I was about to be in some pussy.
The whole rush from the time the appointment is made until the day of the meet can’t be matched. U book it 2 weeks out and it’s the longest 2 weeks of your life 🤣🤣🤣🤣
If the chemistry is there between me and provider almost instant if she seems distant probably not until we start getting active
Never a problem getting hard. Sometimes I have a hard time finishing unless I am super turned on. Some girls get mechanical, and it gets boring. Along with the condom its hard to finish some limes.
As soon as I see her and she starts kissing me I’m already poking her belly. Lol.
The blood always rushes down there when they undress. It's like, damn, this is real life right now.
As soon as I get the room number and the rush just makes me hard lol
Nothing beats meeting a new girl for the first time. Always a special hype moment that can either go right or wrong lol
Same lol, on the drive over I can get pretty nervous and a few times I wonder if I’ll even get performance issues, but as soon as she texts me back when when I arrive all my worries melt away
Deadass