MIL has been calling everyday
I am due September 17 with my first baby. My MIL hates me. I have made other posts but I’m too tired to sum it all up, long story short, she thinks I’m a whore, she said the baby isn’t my husbands, and I’ll never be good enough for him. If you really want to know I think they are still up.
But my MIL has been calling everyday. At all hours of the day. Sometimes at 4am. I don’t want anyone to know I’m in labor, or the baby was born until I am either ready at the hospital, or when we get home. I just can’t deal with all the phone calls. There is already no visitors because both families are extreme and even if they don’t live in the same state as us they still manage to be control freaks and overwhelm me. I already had to tell my own mother she can’t bring the whole family and her cats and dogs to stay with us in our small apartment for weeks after I give birth. My mom barely speaks with me now.
MIL knows I won’t answer the phone because I’m not dealing with her shit. So she calls my husband constantly back to back if he doesn’t answer. Just to ask if baby is here. She told me to some kind of oil a and drink orange juice to induce labor because the baby is taking to long and she needs to see the baby. She said at 34 weeks to take the oil which I read causes baby to just go into distress and I told her I’d rather not,baby will come when it’s ready. She got pissed off told my husband to take the phone back and then said “get your wife under control, I know what’s best. I’ve done this before” and hung up.
First she doesn’t think the baby is even related to her and now she wants to control when it comes. She just poised me off. And we just found out she wrote my husband out of her will. Like what is up with this woman?
Rant over, MIL is just annoying me.
Posted Sep 12, 2023, 4:55 AM UTC