27 [M4F] #Europe - Belgium #IRL - You are LOVE, ETERNITY and PURITY

You don't know me yet, neither do I know you yet. My title caught your attention, you will never forget this day we first met. You are drowning in an ocean of love, resist no more, you're floating in the middle of eternity, here everything is purity.
You and I will make a deal ! You're an honest person, you know invisible souls are watching you. I'm sure you are aware the most indeniable truth says every cause has a consequence. Here is my deal : I will tell you 1 story, and in exchange, if you are a woman, you have to contact me in the chat and send me a DM. Does it sound fair enough ? If you are a male, you still can write me, I will answer you as well. I'm looking for the right woman but I can talk with anyone. Don't make someone upset, don't forget that in the universe every cause has a consequence. If you are a woman and don't write me, I feel so sad. You are right, we didn't make the deal together, but you are reading me now, that's your way of giving me your consent. Does it sound completely fucked up ? :D Yes it is, that's because we haven't talked yet, I have no other options at this point, we're still strangers one another. I do believe in the power of life and its amazing surprises. I can close my eyes and trust abundance, we don't need to expect anything, we just need to be ready for something beautiful to reach us.
Back to what I was saying, I always respect consent, don't worry, this is a particular situation, all of our next deals will always be made by the both of us.
Are you ready to hear the story ? Let's start...
Once upon a time, a couple was living in a huge house in the countryside. They had a young daughter they loved so much. The family had some issues, and even though they had mutual feelings, daily life and the routine was slowly killing the joy and putting out the fire. The family was also facing severe financial difficulties. The world was crashing down, what to do ? The woman decided to leave the house and spend some days with her mother. The man stayed with her daughter and did his best to take care of everything. One day, as they were eating, he was looking out the window and he saw 3 women, far enough, in the middle of the field, sitting and still. That day was foggy, he couldn't clearly see, so he decided he would go to meet them. And he did it !
- "It's a pleasure to meet you, what are you doing here ?... usually we don't see anyone, it's so abandoned in this little town. Could I invite the three of you for dinner at my place ?"
The women were smiling and keeping silence.
The man was a little embarrassed, he was about to go back home, when suddenly, one of them replied...
- "Is your wife at home ?"
- "Hum, no, she is not"
- "In this case, we cannot come. We will talk again when she comes back"
So he came back to his house and explained the story to his daughter. The next week, the woman came back and the husband explained her the story as well. As she was raised in a good family with sharing values, she obviously agreed to invite those women to eat.
Days had passed and those women were still there like if nothing had happened !
- "Dear women, my wife is there, I told her everything, and she agreed, we can invite you"
They were still smiling without saying a word !!!
Then one of them stood up and said :
- "We can't come all together. You have to choose one of us, only one ! Because... you don't know it but, I am the SUCCESS, her on my left is the ABUNDANCE, and her on my right is LOVE"
The man turned around, extremely excited mentally, and while he was reaching home he was thinking : "Damn, I knew these women weren't normal women, I feel so enthusiastic about that".
He told the whole story to her wife and she said :
- "Fine, let's invite the ABUNDANCE"
- "Oh, you were thinking that, I was more into the SUCCESS"
So they started to talk, and it eventually started to become some kind of fight between them cuz' they couldn't agree...
When suddenly...
... :O
...her daughter appeared in the living room and said :
- "Mommy, daddy, please... Don't be so mean... Why don't we invite the LOVE ? It'd be so nice to have some love inside of our house..." <3
The parents froze for an endless moment, incredulous... then they both replied :
- "You're right sweety, you have a very good idea, we'll do as you said"
The man went to meet those women once again...
- "Alright, we did our choice, we wanna invite the LOVE to have a meal with us, please come with me"
The LOVE stood up and followed him...
When she was about to enter in the house, the man heard a voice afar :
- "Wait ! She cannot enter in your house without us as well !"
- "I'm sorry ? I don't understand now... I followed your rules, I did exactly as you decided. I waited for my wife to come home, and I chose only one of you as you wanted... what's wrong ? Is there any problem ?"
- "Dear Sir, if you had chosen ABUNDANCE or SUCCESS, then you would only have had the person of your choice, but where LOVE goes we also have to go !"
Love is always the right choice ! No matter what you want in your life, make sure to always have this variable in your equation. Without love, everything else is tasteless, flavourless, meaningless. No matter how much money or success you might have !
I wanted to tell you this story also to make you understand how bad I feel whenever I talk with a woman and that I'm judged for what I have or can provide, instead of being valued for who I am and what I do.
I've been single for 3 months now, and this solitude is honestly extremely hard to accept / experience. I know many of us (men and women) also experience these moments of unpleasant loneliness. We also need a space in which we are alone and feel free to do things for ourselves only, I agree. But deep inside I'm convinced no human being can actually be happy when staying with nobody for long periods of time. I'm posting my text, like many other people do, in the hope of meeting a wonderful woman who will make me reconsider the sky and the stars, life is going so quickly, I'm terrified to see the years go by and have this bitter taste of solitude in my heart.
I've been chatting with a few women lastly, but nothing really satifsfying for me, different reasons of incompatibilty between us, basically. The last one I chatted with, well... we were having a wonderful conversation, I was so motivated to make this work, but then we exchanged our pics and she wasn't my type at all. I felt so sorry for breaking her heart in such a way. I couldn't lie to her, she was also feeling something for me but I couldn't pretend something different than the truth, unfortunately. I admit that, we humans, base a lot of our decisions (especially the fact of choosing a partner) according to our attraction. And yes, ...we cannot be loved by everyone, some people will always dislike and disapprove some choices we do, or even... who we are ! The key to free ourselves, is to accept and deal with this fact ! It is painful to be rejected by other people. But eventually some other people will love you so much although you haven't changed anything in the meantime. I guess it's all about the own tastes and preferences.
Here I am, looking for my partner in crime. The woman with whom I can travel the world, share stories, play music together, play games, connect emotionnally, physically and sexually, spend endless hours to laugh and talk...
Protect her and hold her in my arms, kiss and love her, worship her body and make her feel special whenever we're together, reassure her and encourage her in the harder times, give her my time and attention so she never ever feels abandoned.
Women are so scared to be abandoned, and paradoxically they are much more likely to divorce and separate from their partner. According to the statistics I could see, about 75% of the separations are initiated by women. What could explain this ?
Maybe women know it's MUCH easier for them to have dates with guys than it is for males to have dates with females. That's an extremely sad truth in my opinion, nothing justifies this blatant imbalance that exists nowadays on ALL dating apps and websites. Many aspects could explain why the society is currently like this, but I honestly don't like it. It's totally unfair that women can get sexual opportunities so easily. Or I'd rather say that men have such difficulties to get regular matches. Dear women, believe me, this frustration many men experience (me included) throughout their life is a very painful moment, and also a cause of violence in the society. Of course it isn't the only reason of violence, and of course I'm not saying women don't suffer in other ways. Just getting to the point that, men also, would love to get a lot of attention from many different women. The rules of online dating is just so fucked up, the codes are broken. If a "normal" woman would like, she could have 1 date everyday with a new guy (tell me if I'm wrong ladies, but I think this is absolutely true ?) Obviously, the "normal" guy could dream forever to have the same success, it will never happen (Tell me if I'm wrong guys ?)
I'm not speaking about very ugly / unwanted people, nor about the very exclusive people at the top of the pyramid !
As for me, I am 27 and live in Europe. We can discuss everything else in private. Don't you forget the deal to contact me ? ahaha I'm waiting for you, ..yes YOU dear beautiful woman C: