It finally happened!

Me and the hubby came out of the closet. Hes gay, im trans. It was an accident of course but what ever.

Sadly his and my narc family didnt take it well. There was an undercurrent of threat to take the kids away cause you know im brainwashing everyone :( so when they left for dinner, we packed up as much as we could carry and fucking drove. Still not sure when well stop but anywhere is better than there.

Any ideas on next steps?