Have any Fearful Avoidant Dumpers Reached out to their Ex After Some Time of No Contact?
Me and my ex gf who is an FA broke up over a month ago. She became deactivated under stress from a new job and broke things off when I asked her to communicate. I was blindsided and I think that this has been going on her mind for quite some time as she told me that she didn't feel the same anymore. We had a stable, good LTR. We broke up once over this kind of issue (loss of attraction) before but it lasted for a few days. This time we had no contact for over a month until we talked as we share the same environment. When we talked a few days ago she was eager to keep me as a friend, but I told her that if there was no hope for reconciliation I didn't want to keep the same level of intimacy, and we wished each other good luck in life. However, I feel that she is quite depressed and listens to songs that are directly related to me.
Are there any FAs who started to feel regret after feeling relief at least a month after a breakup? I really have the intention to work on things as she is probably not aware of her attachment style. Should I just wait for her to contact me? (If she ever does)
Posted Oct 8, 2023, 5:02 PM UTC