Successfully faded and looking for guidance

Hey! So I’m a 19 year old that has been inactive (only attending via zoom with camera and mic off and not doing ministry) for the last 3.5 years whilst living with my PIMI parents. At the end of this month my partner of a year will be moving in with me in my apartment 2.5 hours away from my parents. Exciting as fuck!

I haven’t been attending zoom meetings at all for the last months since i moved out. My dad quite often writes what i call pleading messages to me, messages about how jehovah loves me, how I should come back, how everybody in the cult loves me etc… Now that’s the thing, I’ve been ignoring every single message about the cult that my dad sends to me. Should I continue ignoring the messages or should I ever start planting doubts in the responses i give him, should i reveal that I’m not interested in it anymore? Or should I keep on ignoring his cult pleading messages?

My mom is “supportive” ish of me since she never talks about the cult with me and never discusses anything pertaining to the cult.

This post feels like it’s going in loops now since I don’t really know where I’m going with this.

I just want to put a full and final stop to all the cult gaslighting and pressure my dad puts on me. I know that the pressure that he puts on me is very very very disconnected from the happy and fulfilled life that I have right now with my partner.

Any thoughts comments and discussions about this are very appreciated from me. Hope everybody has a good day!

Fuck the Watchtower!