23 [M4M] Soft dom looking for beefy muscled sub to learn, explore, and develop dom/sub relationship. #Online/Mississippi

 Hello! Hope everyone is doing well and staying safe. I have been interested in BDSM for a while now. Taking the leap to further learn and explore what best suits me and more. That being said, I’m going to be completely honest about who I am, open as possible, and descriptive about what I’m looking for to find a compatible match.

Me:

 I am a 23 year old male. As of now, I’m currently a senior in college. Appearance I am 5’8 weigh around 130lbs with a slim/athletic build. I am an introvert (INFP-T personality type) and shy, but as you talk with me I open up. I enjoy playing video games. Some of my favorite game franchises are Sonic, Pokémon, Bayonetta, and Spyro. Recently started learning fighting games more in-depth, and I am honestly proud of my progress The games I play are Guilty Gear Strive and Dragon Ball FighterZ. Other things I enjoy are anime, art, and anything technology related.

My viewpoint on BDSM:

 Regarding BDSM, my perspective or philosophy on things is different. I consider myself being a “soft Dom/Master”. I believe a BDSM relationship should revolve around communication, trust, and treating the other person with respect. It should be about creating positive experiences. I don’t agree with how a lot of dom/sub or master/slave relationships(or play things really) are centered around abusive behavior. Whether it’s the dominant person wanting to use and abuse someone, or the submissive person wanting to be abused. That also goes for certain kinks like humiliation and being degraded. None of those things are healthy and does nothing but create negative experiences. Adding to that,  I also believe that a title has to be earned. Self-assigning myself with that title doesn’t truly make me a master. That title must be earned. Being a Dom/Master is more than just being bigger, aggressive, and demanding. It is the qualities that you present to the other person. Those qualities that you show to the person give them a reason whether they choose to submit to you or not. I have had only one experience in an online relationship so far. I will stay I learned a lot from it. It showed me that BDSM is deeper and more meaningful.

Who and What I am looking for:

 The type of person or sub I’m looking for is of a beefy muscular/thick build that is a submissive top. Usually, it’s always the bigger masculine male controlling the smaller male. I’m breaking that to show that anyone regardless of how they are physically can take on the dom/master role. It’s their characteristics as mentioned before I also like the contrast of a much stronger male being controlled by a smaller male as if the sub is protecting his master. My age range is between 23-40. Would be willing to up the age but that is just the set preference. Experience or no experience is okay with me. We’re both here to learn, aren’t we? But aside from appearance I generally seek other intellectuals that understand where I’m getting at, and just like-minded people in general.

 I don’t have such high expectations of how I want this to go. I believe forming a connection first and seeing how that progresses is the best way to start. Honesty, respect, communication, and trust from both ends are what make something very successful. Creating a safe environment free of judging to be able to learn and explore what I have an interest in, as well as the respected person. I want to be able to share these feelings with another person, as we both grow. Mainly looking for online, but I’m open to in-person as well.

Here are the kinks that Im interested in:

 Kinks: cum play, cei, joi, cbt, wardrobe control, forced workouts/muscle growth, domestic servitude, total control, orgasm control/denial, milking/edging, chastity, ruined orgasms, tpe, rules, and bondage.

My limits/dislikes: feminization, blood, race play, scat

 If you made it this far, I thank you for taking the time to read my post. You can see that I’m serious and determined in wanting the learn and explore. I look forward to hearing from potential people. Thank you again and have a wonderful day/night.