Have trouble achieving orgasm

Hello. I am posting on behalf of my partner. We’ve been dating for about 3 months. And we’ve kind of tried it all. Toys, foreplay, patience. We’d get a room for hours. 6 hours, just working at it. Every time it seems she’s about to get it, she doesn’t and curses, hahaha. I’m just trying to help.

Tried a rose, she loved it.

Tried the Walmart plusOne personal massager, she loved it.

Tried eating and rubbing g spot and she would often pull my hand out, saying “it’s just there”.

Any tips? I’m always asking for feedback and guidance. I love her, she’s my best friend. She says it’s fine but like, is it? Is it really? Idk…

Anything would be helpful.