Prospective: positivity turns humiliation into a super power. One way I was “the Man” at the party.

I ended up promoting concerts and getting girls then learning about groups of people and the tension they feel and how to be that guy. The guy that guys, girls, bands, bartenders and owners buy drinks. The one who gets to do the thing because no one he isn’t the guy.

In a sold out bar concert venue full of NTs, how many start dancing during the first few songs? A few hundred people looking at eachother as the tension strengthens….0 people on the floor as if a force field stood that could only be defeated by one who has been made comfortable in humiliation aka humility.
Simple concept. I’d run and smile, dance…talk to the band. If i got the look (you’ll know from movies) Id grab a young lady or their mom by the hand and get wild. The trickle of people just waiting to have a dang friday hit the floor and ftom the second the eighth foot hits the floor its a dance party til 2 abd if there is an after party I knew the’d find me and get me there. The band, venue, and half the attendees appreciated whatever I did. If they didn’t recognize what I was doing, it didn’t matter. I acted like the guy and so did everyone else. Its not easy to use my example directly as I was drunk and undiagnosed and in big brain mode or had use of my faculties (not guaranteed). My point is you can do something analogous and its no pick up formula. Individuals are hard for us…they will surprise you and its very unscientific ro study then. Crowds are dumb. Bottom line is normies revert to feelings to direct their actions in a croud. Find a way to be in humiliatable(costume or excuse) and practice social skills in a crowd for too many reasons. Most importantly you can learn something about individual interaction from the simplicity of an aggregate.

Sorry if this doesn’t help anyone. But if someone here can be embarrassed for a few minutes to have one night as the man/woman(fire starter). Worth.💯for a sperg like me damn I did it boys 🤫🤗