What happened to Harry pre and post hiatus?

Hello🥰 I have been a larrie since 2012 and I wanted to ask you guys something. Please understand that I dont mean any harm at all. I'm genuinely curious and I don't understand stuff that's been happening. I'd love to hear your opinion.

Back in the band 1D seemed like besties, but suddenly in 2013/2014 Harry started being more cold, distant and aloof to Liam, Niall, Zayn and Louis. He had his own private jet and flew with that one instead with Liam, Niall, Zayn and Louis. I can't help bit also notice that he started hanging around with Jeff Azoff more and another coincidence is that Jeff has wanted Harry to be a part of his managment/label since 2013 because they hung out together A LOT. At the same time the hiatus was brought up and Harry started distancing himself from 1D. He brought Jeff, Glenne and Xander with him and hardly interacted with 1D.

My question is, do you guys think Harry initiated the hiatus because he had some double agenda? He wanted to start his solo career asap without being seen as the bad guy. Also, do you guys think Harry was jealous that Zayn got out first (therefore Z could have been the 'break out star') and that’s why he kept shading him. Also, do you think Harry was manipulated by Jeff to want a hiatus? Because H doesn’t seem selfish to me. Something else that I also don't understand is why Harry pretends 1D doesn’t exist, like he wasn’t a part of the band, especially around 2017/2018. It feels like he is ashamed or just want it to be about him.

Finally, the last part. Harry also cooperates in stunts and chooses to do stunts. Its so weird. Like, the Emrata kiss. It makes him look so fame hungry and money hungry and that’s not the boy I fell in love with in 2012.

From the things I have read, I feel like Harry was the one who wanted the hiatus in order to go solo himself, knowing he would get a good career since Sony always favored him and the Azoffs promised him a life full of fame and money and glory. I also feel like Jeff kept whispering in his ear to leave the band/initiate the hiatus so he could go solo. This, mixed with the fact that H was tired of having no freedom and Azoff promised him more freedom (which Harry did get).

But, just knowing he was already ready to go solo in 2013 makes me feel like he was backstabbing the rest of the boys since he knew he had his future made because he had it all: the best treatment, great connections etc and the other boys didn't have any of that. He knew they didn't have a secure future solo career and he still did it so he could be the breakout star. It makes him look sly and mean and like chooses himself over the boys. However, I know (and hope) he isn't like that, Harry is sweet and nice and adorable, but also very in love with music. So I feel like I may not know enough to judge him on this subject, that's why I'd like to ask you. Finally, the one thing I don't understand is why Harry and Jeff were hanging out so early during the 1D days? Do you think H was already planning his solo career without the other boys knowing that? Or were him and Jeff just friends?

I know this topic is meant for a One Direction group, but I feel like Larries think a little more instead of just believing everything the media says. You guys know what the industry is like. Thanks in advance❤️