Momma finding her inner self..... Can I be more than just mom??

Recently I have been really searching to find something to be more than just Mom and wife. I love being those things, but I am always just mom. I am always being the mom things. I recently decided that I wanted to adventure out. After a long discussion with my husband, I joined OF. I would like to find other creators or friends who would like to help me on my journey. I am wanting to put alot of effort into this. I want to really put myself out there. I want to learn to see myself like my husband sees me. Sexy, appealling, and irresistable. Anyone have suggestions or advice???