28 (F) New mole by Eye duct

I have already had 2 dermatologist and 1 Opthalmologist look at this spot, but I wanted to see what this subreddit has to say.

Around 26 years old I noticed a "mole" by my right eye duct. I never really thought about it because I have freckles and some minor sun spots on my nose. However after learning about melanoma, I got concerned. I haven't really noticed much of a change in the mole since it appeared, and all the doctors that looked at it weren't worried about it.

I have an appointment with an oculoplastic surgeon, but am not sure what to do.

Am I being paranoid?