I’m hurt that I feel like my friends are making fun of neo pronouns

I go by any pronouns and one of my friends said her. I think it was a joke though cause they never do it so I was surprised she referred to me as “her” but then they started just saying a bunch of neo pronouns. I can’t tell if they were making fun of me. One of my friends doesn’t even think Neo pronouns should exist but I heavily disagree because I think it’s a big part of history and why not let it exist. It doesn’t harm anybody.