54/34[MF4M] Couple looking to explore. Prefer adult men(35+)

We are an Indian couple from California. I am an older man 54 and she is 34. I am trying to encourage her to explore. But she is uncomfortable but agreed to try. So we are looking for online chat to start with. But if things go well and she feels excited, we would be open to meeting in real life. For us, it is more about compatibility, trust, and safety. Also, we need privacy.

I have lot of ideas we want to explore. We can discuses the details including expectations and limits in private chat.

We are looking for only adult straight men (35+) close to our time zone. She prefers white men but we are open to others as long as she feels interested. She picks the person and I pick the fantasy.

We are new here. So not sure what else to add. If you have any question, feel free to first introduce yourself and tell us a bit about you. Thank you all.

Also, there is no rush. We can only chat when both of us are free.