Many real black guys find this gross and racist

I’m (22 m whiteboy) into this kink just as much as any of you, and so are some black guys, but I think it’s really important to acknowledge that this kink is very strange. It’s not “mainstream” and “growing as a movement” as much as we’d love to fantasize that every girl talks about BNWO in secret. I’ve had a Grindr for a while advertising my dedication to BNWO and willingness to suck BBC, but pretty much every black guy has never heard of the BNWO and finds it really strange. At best they don’t mind it but many of them have told me they find it weird and racist and haven’t wanted to meet me because of it. And it’s really important to take that to heart because even if you’re stereotyping an entire race in a positive light (masculinity, dominance), you’re still stereotyping a race and that can often be dehumanizing. If you see any random black guy on the street and start imagining his “bbc” then you’re probably fetishizing race a bit too much. Honest question, do any of you (who are white) have black friends irl?