iPhone at the Bathhouse

Last night I was at a bathhouse. I was in the steam room and decided to approach a guy I saw through the fog. He was amenable and I started sucking his dick. He was actually pretty attractive with a nice body (and dick 🤣). But at some point he asked me if I minded that he watched some porn. I didn’t totally understand so was like yeah, whatever and kept sucking. He pulled his iPhone out from his towel and started watching porn. Realizing this and feeling turned off by it, I just sorta finished my sucking him as one does in those situations and walked away.

I’m pretty darn certain phones aren’t allowed in those areas of bathhouses because of the possibility of non-consensual recording. People generally keep their phones in their lockers or rooms and check Grindr or whatever right there which is fine (I do that and see it done all the time.) But nowhere else.

I didn’t do anything at the time except move on from the encounter. But today wondering if I should have reported it to the front desk. I’m not the morality police but that seemed like a bad enough violation that I think I should have. What would you have done in that situation?