any asexuals here that can diagnose me or smth idk
am i asexual or something?
so. ill just get into it right now and clarify that im actually one hundred percent positive that im AROMANTIC, and that im not really in a rush to know if im asexual or not. just curious is all
ill explain really quick on what im confused about, and the reason im confused is that i know me being aromantic and all, theres a big possibility im asexual as well.. but i cant tell because im autistic and blah blah blah attraction doesnt make sense to me.
basically, ive never found somebody irl that ive wanted to kiss, or makeout, or bang. or even touch. sure, there are some random strangers ill see and be aesthetically attracted to, like, damn theyre so pretty but never want to have SEX with them.
the thing is, i get very easily aroused by.. the 'idea' of anything even remotely sexual? like, talkign about reproduction gets me yk excited a bit, but never real people, i actually get very very uncomfortable thinking about that in a real situation.
i watch porn very occasionally and it does turn me on, if i listen to an audio it turns me on, or i see a very specific type of nude body i get that feeling.
i dont have any desire to actually participate in sexual intercourse at all though, and nobody ive met in the real world makes me feel like that, it makes me sick to think about feeling like that to an actual person i meet or see on the street.
so am i just weird or could there be smth else going on? like am i asexual, on the asexual-spectrum??
Posted Nov 2, 2023, 1:17 AM UTC