pot sd sexual talk before m&g is this a red flag

the plan is to meet later today and they texted me asking if the m&g went well if the arrangement can start tonight. I responded and basically said yeah if we hit it off i don’t see why not…then after he started asking for sexual preferences and other acts he likes, is this normal??

it’s so early we haven’t even met yet..i wouldn’t be so caught off guard if we met once. shouldn’t this be discussed when we meet or after the m&g?

to do a test I did ask to raise the ppm to see if he would accept it which he responded possibly - depending on the time we spend together.

need some advice thank you