Finally beating my brother

I 21 [F] am married to my husband 22 [M] and I feel like I need to outdo my brother in law constantly. He and his husband (27M & 28M) got married 3 days before us (we were engaged first.) And I always felt like they sort of outshined us a little. Now I love them and am so happy for them. But at the end of the year I will walk the graduation stage at the same time as him and I can not stop being proud to finally beat them at something. I know it is silly and petty but I am so excited. My name will be the one called first. My diploma will be in hand before him. I will finally be the first.