Has anyone here managed to break the cycle?

I’ve been in 2 violent//abusive relationships. I’m worried about dating seriously because I don’t think I’d survive a third. I’ve healed a lot but idk maybe I attract abusers. Has anyone had a similar pattern and managed to break the cycle and have healthy relationships ? That’s all I want but I go out with somebody who treats me nicely and it kinda makes me uncomfortable. Idk how to explain it. But I don’t want to feel that way.