Gf (18F) keeps arguing with me (18M) about going out with friends

I’ve tried posting this so many different times, but it’s on my main acc now so whatever

My girlfriend and I always have a repetitive argument when it comes to going out with my friends

My girlfriend doesn’t like the fact that I go out with them due to the ‘dangerous’ nature we seem to get ourselves into and the fact that my friends put me into situations she’s not comfortable with. We’ve had this talk many times and while I do understand where she’s coming from, it’s getting old

My side of the argument is that these are my best friends and I’ve known them for over half my life. Yes we do dumb things but we’re enjoying our last years to be able to do it as we’re eventually going to grow up and not be able to.

I’ve told her that I’d be willing to cut them off to make her happy, but when I try to I can’t seem to do it. I do love my girlfriend but I don’t want to cut off my friends for someone who I don’t even know if I’ll be with for the rest of my life considering we’re still young

I’m not sure what to do anymore. We have this fight every time I go out and it’s putting an extreme dampener on our relationship. I’d really like an outside opinion, so I really hope this gets to the right audiences. How can we find a solution?

Posted Nov 2, 2023, 1:26 AM UTC

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