disconnect

I just fot the game and every time i try and play with a friend it just keeps like 70% of the time saying "failed to connect to server" after not responding and making me wait for like 2 whole minutes and when i can get it it kicks me out again after like 30 seconds of gameplay. We live in the same state, im on ethernet, and everything else is running perfect and i set up and email verified my account with the correct details. I let it through my firewall, rebooted the game and my pc dozens of times, verified game files, checked my antivirus, hardware not even at 50% useage overall, tried fullscreen then windows and not tabbing out at all, im just at a lost for what to even try at this point. And my friends connection is working just fine with zero disconnects.