AITB for not wanting to be submissive or be weak for a top

AMITA for not wanting a top or man to tell me to do stuff

so i am an power bttm, i dont want no top or any dude to try manipulate me like what happens with other bttm . So because i am not submissive or small minded or horny or foolish like some bttms ppl wanna call me toxic for it when i am just living my life. Its not my fault make some ppl need and crave for dicks. I am not like that weither the top or verse listen to me then i go. Why should i stay in a relationship where i have to obey and then be used. I respect all who thinks it's okay to be submissive but it's just not who I am