Not Ready Yet

it’s hard to really describe the situation, but i will try my best, so if anybody could read this and give their best input, it’s greatly appreciated. Apologizes if this is long too

Anyways, about a month back this girl and her boyfriend broke up, ending what was a 1 year relationship. After it ended, he tried getting back together with her for about 2 weeks (and probably still is), whether it be through messaging her on socials she hasn’t already blocked him on or through friends. She said she broke up with him because of him being manipulative and constantly needing attention. So then about 3 weeks ago, me and her started talking- not romantically, but because we’ve known each other for years and she just happened to be around. After us hanging out with a group a few times and eventually by ourselves, i could tell romantic feelings were developing on both sides. Sadly, any time I’ve tried to do something like, let’s say, a movie night at her house or something else, she says she’s not ready for a relationship, and is far from it. After seeing what her old boyfriend did after they broke up, i can understand her not feeling comfortable yet. Still though, Im not sure how long i can wait. I may not understand what she’s going through, but i do think that eventually she needs to be ready. I think if she would try another relationship it might heal her more than it thinks. I don’t know if im being pushy because im not really a romantic or anything, and i want what’s best for her, just i have no clue what to do. If any of that makes sense I hope i could get some input