Holidays

I said goodbyes in mind quite awhile ago to elderly family that is very much pro having tons of kids and feel that all family should spend all their free time with them. They live several hrs away and preach constantly. Every one of their visits involve talk of great/grandchildren, offspring and how only those with children inherit blah blah. There is this expectation of kissing up and catering as well. Why TF would we drive for hrs to hear drivel and honestly who TF cares abt any possible inheritance? I did some math in my mind and my assessment is they have spent it (good for them ... I could care less) There is also the utter bullshit that because my spouse and I don't have kids, we should take care of random shit for them. They have 2 adult children at their finger tips, why do they need a posse of ppl. I am just ranting and the pain meds are giving me a stream of conscience-sque writing. Thanks for the writing therapy.