Need your guidance

a lil backstory first:
The culture I'm in used to be primarly an arranged marriage kinda deal. Genders are not allowed to interact together outside. so I grew up not interacting with girls.

Nowadays, a lot of people are dating... which is great! but there's still a stigma on genders mixing in public. My brothers and friends have found dates through social media. And one of them even got married!

So here's my issue: I have terrible social media presence, I hang out with my friends on discord all day, and I almost never interact with people online, or offline.

I'm trying to change that, to put myself out there so I can hopefully find someone. but I don't know where to focus my efforts...

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